Swollen AmygdalaA child living under traumatic conditions will develop a brain that is very biased to danger. This will last into adulthood. This is done through the amygdala which is…
A child who has lived in a situation of stress and abuse for a prolonged time will usually develop Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This is an elaborate system of…
Children of narcissists will often ‘internalise the narcissist’. This means to develop part of the brain/personality which mirrors/copies the narcissist’s critical voice. This defence mechanism ensures that the child can…
Neuroplasticity is the ability of the brain to adapt physically to new information and grow new neural pathways. It is how we learn. The brain can form new neurons (any…
Black and white, all or nothing or dichotomous thinking is a pattern of thinking that develops in early childhood.It develops in children who have come from difficult backgrounds where there…
How the Fear of the Self Develops A child of a narcissist will often develop a fear of their own self. Beliefs develop in the early years which become deeply…
Narcissistic supply is the name for the driving force behind the behaviours of a narcissist. This driving force is their shaky, unstable self-esteem of which they are largely consciously unaware.…
Many children of narcissists may not be aware that they are usually in service of others and do not really do anything just for themselves or consider their wants and needs to be important. If they do something for themselves or if they do not do something which other people want them to do, they may feel an overwhelming sense of guilt.
