We are not what happened to us, we are what we wish to become
Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate
Carl Jung
Narcissistic
Personality Disorder
If your parent or partner can be cold, controlling or devaluing, be dismissive of you or your opinions, has rarely said sorry for anything, seems to be lacking in empathy, gives you the silent treatment which may go on for days or even weeks, if they lie a lot, or are manipulative and self-centred, if you get the feeling they think ‘it’s my way or the highway,’ if they are jealous and highly critical, if they are quick to anger and rage and if you feel you are never good enough – you may have a parent or partner with NPD.
A person with NPD can cause their partner and/or children to feel shamed, belittled and ignored and it can have serious effects on self-worth and self-esteem. A person who grows up with a parent with NPD may develop Complex PTSD, addictions, a panic disorder, anxiety or depression, amongst other outcomes.
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Trauma Articles
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Paranoia
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The International Trauma Questionnaire
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Structural Dissociation
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Symptoms of Trauma
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The Brain and Trauma
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Trauma and Dissociation
Dissociation is on a spectrum. At one end we have normal dissociation such as daydreaming or going onto autopilot when
Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
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Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
