Triggers and Triggering

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A child who has lived in a situation of stress and abuse for a prolonged time will usually develop Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This is an elaborate system of defence mechanisms which are triggered by events in the environment which alert the person to possible danger. Much of the time this can take place without the person having much conscious awareness.

Our nervous system uses the ‘animal’ defence mechanisms of Fight, Flight, Freeze, Submit and Attach. We will be ready to activate the appropriate one (best one to keep us as safe as possible depending on each situation) in a split second.

When fight/flight is activated the body uses adrenaline to increase the heart rate, our muscles tense up and we have a surge of energy in preparation for action. The logic part of our brain shuts down so we can act as quickly as possible.

When freeze/submit is activated our body releases chemicals which slow the heart rate and respiration leading to physical collapse, weakness and shaking and the survival responses of freeze and submit.

Childhood trauma can leave people with a nervous system which is always prepared for danger. They may be hyperaroused (fight/flight) and have the symptoms of feeling emotionally overwhelmed, panicky, hypervigilant, a general feeling of not being safe, reactive, irritable and the mind can be racing. When hypoaroused (freeze/submit) they have the symptoms of numbness, lack of energy, a foggy head, shame and disconnectedness.

Many things can be triggers to the activation of the nervous system and these will be unique to the individual. Triggers can be things such as:

Recall of traumatic events

Being asked questions

Self-disclosure

Not allowed to speak

Being put on the spot

Being ignored

Being centre of attention

Emotions, vulnerability

Loud noises

Authority figures

Being told “No”

Having to say “Yes”

Night-time, sleep

Criticism, feedback

Confrontation

Home and family

Intimacy

Eye contact

Commitment

Time of day/year

Facial expressions

The clues to our being triggered can be found in our bodily responses. Triggered reactions are sudden and intense and hard to change once they have taken hold. Examples of these are:

Anxiety, fear

Increased heart rate

Tightness or clenching in the stomach

Shallow breathing, hyperventilation, holding the breath

Obsessive thinking

Response which is disproportional to the event

0-to-60 reactions

Muscle tension 

Jumping to conclusions or catastrophising

Fear of abandonment or aloneness, feeling small

Practicing mindfulness, self-awareness and grounding techniques can help with overcoming triggers and calming the nervous system down. This keeps the body in a more relaxed state and helps to stop it from going into hyper/hypoarousal when unnecessary. 

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Sarah Graham

Sarah Graham

I am a Counsellor, based in Bournemouth in the UK, with specialist knowledge of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I am trained in treating Complex Trauma. I work online and am insured to work in most places in the world.

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