This video talks about issues which are common for children of narcissistic parents:
Parentification
Triggers and Triggering
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rofpu8PnQDI
The Window of Tolerance
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGDqJYEi_Ks
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-m2YcdMdFw
Struggles in Relationships
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Av7u4F495rY
Attachment Style
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2fl_tt2GWI
Trauma Bonding
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRI1HSzwpAc
Boundaries – too lax or too rigid
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4CZQnJqa7aM
Paranoia
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aosMeQJif6Y
Dog Whistling (reactive abuse)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AavB2DYjlY
Damned if you do and damned if you don’t
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnSiJOOdo30
Addictions
Issues with Food
Body Dysmorphic Disorder
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxTaPDbhMf8
Fear of Abandonment
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xL5OEq_utqU
Fear of Intimacy
People Pleasing
Harsh Inner Critic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4nK9bcvg2g
Guilt
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KSGhmnFCL0
The Adapted Self
The True Self
Shame
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-dkQrwkZp5A
Fear of the Self
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xL5OEq_utqU
Loneliness / Self-alienation
Avoidance
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUzwb89HZ4I
Lack of Self-Compassion
Lack of Self-Care
Core Beliefs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0EvMungldY
Perfectionism
High Achieving
Procrastinating
Laziness
Self-Doubt
Assertive Communication
Emptiness
Cognitive Errors
I.e., black and white thinking, overgeneralising, minimising and magnification, jumping to conclusions, assuming we know what others are thinking, catastrophising, should and ought to, I feel bad = I am bad (assuming a feeling is a fact), disqualifying the positive, automatically blaming ourselves…… and more….
Black and White Thinking
Devaluing and Idealisation
Deprogramming from the Cult
Low Self-Esteem
Social Anxiety
Panic
Depression
Suicidal Thoughts
Burn Out
Phobias / OCD
Health Anxiety
Life and the Self not Feeling Real
Disliking Special Days (i.e., Birthdays and Christmas)
Issues with Trust
Missing Memories
Emotional Disconnection
