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How We Become Our Own Abuser

  • Post author:childrenofnarcissists
  • Post published:22 September 2020
  • Post category:Narcissistic Personality Disorder/The Brain/Trauma
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Children of narcissists will often ‘internalise the narcissist’. This means to develop part of the brain/personality which mirrors/copies the narcissist’s critical voice. This defence mechanism ensures that the child can…

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